Hey there guys,
So lately I’ve been answering a lot of emails in my inbox from guys that are having relationship problems mainly with getting their wife back. Even though this site is geard towards men, I am always willing to help anyone that’s going through a break up.
I’ve been talking a lot with T.W. Jackson of Magic of Making Up because he’s an expert when it comes to this stuff. He is a psychological master and knows exactly how much a break up sucks.
I didn’t meet him until after me and my wife were back together, but I know that he teaches similar methods to the ones that I like to write about. T.W. believes, like I do, that any relationship can be saved no matter how bad it ended. We all deserve a chance to fix a broken relationship.
Don’t Make These Gigantic Mistakes!!
The following are some classic mistakes that both men and women make when they’re trying to get their partner back. They won’t do anything but push your lover farther and farther away from you pretty much guaranteeing no second shot.
- Expressing Your Love – Yes, this is perfectly normal to do when you’re in a relationship and you very much should occasionally. But when you break up, the last thing you want to do is leave a long voice-mail explaining to your ex how much you love them – how your life is worthless without that person. Don’t do this!!
- Begging Your Ex – This is another big mistake that people make. After breaking up, they call and text constantly practically begging their partner to come back to them. Not only is this creepy, you will push him or her farther away from you in the shortest amount of time possible.
- Saying You’ll “Change” – Ok, you might mean it but first you really need to know what you’ve done wrong. Telling your ex that you’ll change to fix the relationship is pretty much a flat out lie since people rarely, if ever, change who they are. You can always fix some things – weight, bad habits, appearance, confidence, etc. – but you can’t change the person that you are.
There are plenty more things that people do wrong so it’s no wonder that most relationships in this day and age are over within 6 months. It’s a sad reality for most couple because you go in thinking it’s the greatest thing ever – to only be surprised by some of the things your partner does…
In the end, Magic of Making Up is worth it if you’re serious about getting back with your ex ASAP – Not in 4 months like I did. I wish I had met T.W. last Summer when I was going through my whole ordeal but such is life. I learned a lot – probably enough to write my own book on relationships – and for that I am thankful.
Talk soon guys and stay strong. You’ll be getting back together with your ex before you know it so stay positive. And keep sending in emails – I love answering them!
Aaron





